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THE HARD THING IN REVIVAL (HABAKKUK CHAPTERS 1 & 3: 17-19)

 

THE HARD THING IN REVIVAL

BIBLE PASSAGE: HABAKKUK chapter 1 & 3:17-19


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Lesson Prepared by: Krisha of Solomon’s Wisdom FB page

Lesson ideas taken from: mmbcbaptistlessons/PtrPhilipPointerSermon

 

APRIL 10, 2022


MEMORY VERSE

Lord, I have heard thy speech, and was afraid: O Lord, revive thy work in the midst of the years, in the midst of the years make known; in wrath remember mercy.

HABAKKUK 3:2

 

INTRODUCTION:

Do we know what will happen in the next years of your life? Do we know what possible disaster may come that will hit you spiritually? No one knows except God. That’s why we need to be ready. We are not always spiritual in our journey that’s why we need revival. The very dangerous time is when we think we’re okay and then problems strike us and we’re not ready. Bible warns us, “Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.” Therefore, don’t say, I don’t need revival. We need to keep on reading and hearing God’s word in order for us to be ready for this life, in our journey.

 

Do we have loved ones, friends or sisters or brothers in the Lord who were once serving in God’s ministry and now they have different priorities and seldom go to church? How sad to see the result of their waywardness? There is a brother in the Lord who became one of the workers of CBT but chose to leave the church and followed what he thought was better. I once asked this worker, “Why you don’t bring your kids to church?” and he just replied, “I want them to give them a lesson or grounded them for their disobedience.” This grounded situation took days, months and years and ask me where are they now? They are okay in terms of money, but their lifestyles are different- worldly lifestyles. I don’t want to jump into conclusions because we are all prone to spiritual coldness as the others. I say this to warn myself and some all of us here.

 

What if you want your family to go back in the ministry but they are stubborn? What will be your feeling if you keep on praying for them, but it takes days, months and years and they do the same and nothing change? You pray for solutions to make them revive in their spiritual coldness. This kind of feeling was the same feeling the minor prophet had experienced. His name is prophet Habakkuk; he is a minor prophet but gave an important-spiritual message. The prophet sees the sins of God’s people; his burden is seeing the people in strife, violence and contention. Let’s read chapter 1: 3-4.

Why dost thou shew me iniquity, and cause me to behold grievance? for spoiling and violence are before me: and there are that raise up strife and contention. Therefore the law is slacked, and judgment doth never go forth: for the wicked doth compass about the righteous; therefore wrong judgment proceedeth.

In verses 2 says,  “O Lord, how long shall I cry, and thou wilt not hear! even cry out unto thee of violence, and thou wilt not save! Why dost thou shew me iniquity, and cause me to behold grievance? for spoiling and violence are before me: and there are that raise up strife and contention.”

Habakkuk was pleading to God to send or do something to correct His people. He prayed earnestly because revival was desperately needed for God’s people. This burden of the prophet is not easy. Let’s study today the lesson titled, “THE HARD THING IN REVIVAL.”

 

LESSON OUTLINE:

1.  WHEN GOD’S SOLUTION IS HARD TO ACCEPT (HABAKKUK 1:6)

 

God answers his cry and in verse 6, God has a solution for the barrenness of the people’s spirituality. In verse 6 says,

For, lo, I raise up the Chaldeans, that bitter and hasty nation, which shall march through the breadth of the land, to possess the dwellingplaces that are not their's.”

 

In the next verses from verse 7 – 11, God mentioned how wicked the Babylonians were. What’s the solution of God? In order to bring back the Israelites to God is to bring the Babylonians (Chaldeans) to the scene. God will let the Babylonians ransack Jerusalem, overthrow their government, burned the walls and the temple, and take the people as captives (1:6). Upon hearing God’s solution, Habakkuk isn’t in favor of the solution, and we can read that first in verses 12.

Art thou not from everlasting, O Lord my God, mine Holy One? we shall not die. O Lord, thou hast ordained them for judgment; and, O mighty God, thou hast established them for correction.”

 

In verses 13 -17 Habakkuk mentioned why God allowed the ungodly nation to punish his people (Read in Tagalog). Habakkuk had the problem with the solution because God’s solution does not fit into Habakkuk’s limited scope on to revive His people or bring back the people into holiness. What lesson we could get with the conversation between the prophet and God, the Father? Sometimes we pray for God to fix something in our family but we get discouraged and upset to God when the solution is hard to accept. His solution is not what we want Him to fix it. His solution is different from ours. For examples:

·       A mother wanted & prayed for her rebellious son to bring back in the church, but she doesn’t want him to get arrested and go to jail. What if God’s solution is to get him arrested in order for him to be humbled and he’ll bend his knees in prayer?

·        What if your son who was active and faithful in God’s ministry then suddenly, he stopped from doing his spiritual duties and now he has different priorities? Then God’s solution for him is to get a serious ill in order for him to acknowledge God and be revived.

·       Being a Christian, you chose the wrong relationship and fight for that relationship within your family. To bring you back to the right path, God’s solution is your partner would fall –out of love and he broke up with you.

 

Habakkuk and God had this conversation, “Lord why you use ungodly people to correct your people?” God uses godly, ungodly or everything to bring us back to His will. It’s possible that the prophet saw the hardness and hurt of the solution of God. God reminded Habakkuk to hold on. One reason God used Habakkuk for this kind of situation of the people of God is the meaning of his name; the name Habakkuk means “embrace.” God wants His people to embrace and hold on. They needed to have a positive disposition even there’s negative circumstances. Be positive still even in the midst of negative situations around you. Let’s put our attention not on the dark days but to the SOURCE of all things. Stop looking around and look up. With this, you’ll have a positive outlook on looking above- DIVINE SOURCE.

 

2.  WHEN WE DON’T ACKNOWLEDGE OUR PLIGHT (HABAKKUK 3:17-18)

17 Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: 18 Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation.

 

 

When you say plight, it means – a dangerous, difficult or otherwise unfortunate situation. The hard thing in revival is acknowledging your plight or difficult situation.

 

I was assigned before as one of the devotion teachers in young people and I asked each one this question, “What is your greatest fear?”  One of them answered, “My greatest fear is losing our family’s source of income.” That’s true losing the source of income is one of the hardest things. What if the basic needs are no longer supplied properly? What is God allowing to happen is the stuff that working on is not working anymore? What’s my point?

To explain let’s read verse 17,

Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls:

 

The fig tree is not blossomed, no fruit in the vines, olive failed, no meat in the fields, flock shall be cut off, and no herd in the stalls. In a moment our work is gone, no food on the table, no rice, no meat and everything. You would say, “I’m doing my best, I’m planting, I’m plowing and weeding but they aren’t working.

 

All these things happening to you but still don’t acknowledge God. Some of us go to church and always like everything is going well – act like everything is working. You act like everything is always well, wonderful and good but God won’t fix what you won’t face. I remember what teacher Liza said when our struggle was so hard, and we couldn’t sleep anymore. She said to me that we acted like we still okay. If you needed help admit it.  God will not help you through if you won’t be honest and have to admit that WHAT YOU DO IS NOT WORKING.  The first step to true deliverance and revival is ACCEPTANCE what is not working in your life. It’s not always the devil that’s stopped it from working; it’s not always the haters or the people around you and it’s not always your enemies that’s stopping from working; some stuff or things you do are not working because God is allowing the condition of your situation to be a sign of the condition of your soul. God wants you to see that what’s going around you is simply the result of what’s going on within you. The barrenness you see is the barrenness in you.

You’ll probably say, “I’m doing what I can to make things work to produce, to have some sense of success” but friends this lesson reminds us that it does not matter how good of a farmer you are if God doesn’t send rain, nothing will grow. You’re not where you are because you’re such a good farmer. If you got any produce in your life, yes, because God sends some rain on top of your field.

 

Acknowledge your plight because denial is not deliverance.  Pretending you’re not hurt doesn’t heal. Sometimes our barrenness is fixed by us. If problems arise within your family, at work and friends, we try to fix it and we think that our experiences, connection, education achievements are going to fix it, but these don’t work. The barrenness around you will be fixed if first the barrenness in you will fix by our God. The barrenness in us like seldom go to church, not reading our bibles, no prayer because of tiredness and no soul winning. Acknowledge your plight and bring it to the Lord. Ask God to revive you from your barrenness.

“O Lord, I have heard thy speech, and was afraid: Lord, revive thy work in the midst of the years, in the midst of the years make known; in wrath remember mercy.” (Habakkuk 3:2)

Tagalog: “Yahweh, narinig ko ang ulat tungkol sa iyo, at ako’y nalipos ng paghanga sa iyong mga ginawa. Ulitin moa ng mga gawang ito sa panahong ito at magpakahayag kang muli ngayon. Ipadama mo ang iyong awa kahit sa panahon ng pagkapoot.”

 

CONCLUSION:

A father is teaching his son to tie his shoes then one day the son decided to run around the house, and he needed to wear his shoes. He tried to do it without his father. He started to untie the lace with the knot but the problem he can’t do it so he called his dad. His father came, knelt down and started working on the knot but his son was doing the knot too. The father is loosening the knot then the son tightening the knot at the same time. After couples of minutes the father took his hands off and stood up and let his son continue the work. The son looked up to his father and frustrated and said, “Daddy, I thought you would help me get the knot out?” But the father replied, “I will help you, but you have to take your hands off.”

 

Some of us looking at the barren field and we still trying to fix it ourselves and trying to be smart enough to fix it but we can’t. Let’s go back to verse 17 – imagine no food on the pantry

 

17 Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls

 

Fig tree shall not blossom, no fruit on the vine, the labor of the olive is going to fail, the fields yield no food – no wheat on the fields, the flock will be cut off from the fold and there’s no herd on the stalls and in verse 18 YET – it’s contrasting conjunction; it’s separates and connects at the same time. YET I WILL REJOICE IN THE LORD, I WILL HAVE JOY IN THE GOD OF MY SALVATION.

Our determination for dark days begins when we acknowledge our plight, but it continues when I affirm our praise. YET I WILL REJOICE – NOT I FEEL REJOICE.  Some of us only rejoice when we feel rejoice. We wait for the choir to sing; we wait for the background music to be played and waited for someone to encourage us before we rejoice. Even you don’t feel rejoice, you will rejoice because God’s character won’t change. You’re broke but you will rejoice. Don’t wait to blossom the fig tree before you affirm your praise.

 

19The Lord God is my strength, and he will make my feet like hinds' feet, and he will make me to walk upon mine high places. To the chief singer on my stringed instruments.

 

A hind is a female deer, especially one of the red deer family (Google).

 

He maketh my feet like hinds' feet - So Habakkuk 3:19, "He will make my feet like hinds' feet, and he will make me to walk upon mine high places." The hind is the female deer, remarkable for fleetness or swiftness. The meaning here is, that God had made him alert or active, enabling him to pursue a flying enemy, or to escape from a swift-running foe. (barnernotes commentary)

REND YOUR HEART AND NOT YOUR GARMENTS (JOEL CHAPTERS 1-2:12-27)

 

REND YOUR HEART AND NOT YOUR GARMENTS

BIBLE PASSAGE: JOEL CHAPTERS 1 – 2:12-27


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Lesson Prepared by: Krisha of Solomon’s Wisdom FB page

Lesson ideas taken from: https://www.templebaptch.com/

APRIL 04, 2021


MEMORY VERSE

And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.

JOEL 2:13

 

 INTRODUCTION:

In ancient times in the near eastern lands, when individuals wished to show mourning or a deep sense of sorrow, they would tear their garments. Jacob mourned Joseph in such a way (Genesis 37:34). Job so mourned the loss of his family and possessions likewise (Job 1:20). 2 Samuel 1:11 records for us David’s response to the death of Saul and Jonathan. “Then David took hold on his clothes, and rent them; and likewise, all the men that were with him: and they mourned, and wept, and fasted until even, for Saul, and for Jonathan his son, and for the people of God, and for the house of Israel; because they were fallen by the sword.” This custom expressed in an external way what was happening inside the suffering individual.

 

In Joel 1, the prophet spoke of the judgment that had arrived in Judah (a plague of locusts and drought). In Joel 2, he begins by describing judgment that will come – a mighty army set against Judah. Since this is all part of “God’s Day” not “man’s day,” it is described as the day of the LORD. In the day of Joel, the inconsistent people of Israel had a history of acting one way but being another. For their sins, God’s prophets proclaimed that God would bring judgment upon them. Joel was one of those prophets. Nevertheless, there was still time for repentance. Referencing this custom, Joel emphasized that it had to be the people’s heart that changed, not merely their outward appearance. He wrote, “Therefore also now, saith the Lord, turn ye even to me with all your heart, and with fasting, and with weeping, and with mourning:  And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.” (Joel 2:12-13).

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In this verse we can see how important the heart in revival and in line with this is repentance; it’s the key. Is there an instance in our spiritual life that needs to be reminded about giving your attention with? In time of consecration, after the sermon or preaching of the word, is there a time we are forced to go forward (dedicating or surrendering your life) or you just go to avoid people looking at you because you’re the only one left sitting down?

 

I’ll get some words from the devotion of Pastor Rod yesterday. He said that “Don’t stay that you’re standing and strong right now because you might fall”. Apostle Peter is a great reminder of that, even he was with the Lord-he fell, even he said, “I love you Lord” – he fell, even he replied to Jesus’s question, “Will ye also go away?”, his reply, “Lord, to whom shall we go? thou hast the words of eternal life” – he fell and even you say, Though all men shall be offended because of thee, yet will I never be offended” or in Tagalog “Kahit na po iwan kayo ng lahat, hindi ko kayo iiwanhe fell. So, you see, you wouldn’t know. The Bible says, “Take heed lest you fall”. In Luke 22 mentioned that he denied Jesus three times, And Peter said, Man, I know not what thou sayest and in Luke 22: 61, 62 say, "And the Lord turned and looked upon Peter. And Peter remembered the word of the Lord, how He had said unto him, Before the cock crow, thou shalt deny me thrice. And Peter went out and wept bitterly." Remember, before Peter could go back to his feet again, he had to be humbled. Therefore, it’s important to rend our hearts and not our garments and in Tagalog, “Magsisi kayo nang taos sa puso, hindi pakitang- tao lamang”. And whether we like it or not, God uses painful circumstances in our lives in order for us to get our attention and be back on the right track.

 

LESSON OUTLINE:

1.  PROBLEM COMES FOR A PURPOSE (JOEL 1:1-2:11)

The nation of Israel is in trouble! They’re under constant attacks by their enemies. They have experienced a terrible drought and a massive invasion of locusts. These tragedies have left the land ruined, and the people discouraged, and demoralized.

·       They faced devastation (1:4) – One insect invasion after another destroyed and ruined their crops. There was no food left for the people. (pagkawasak in Tagalog)

·       They faced destruction (1:5-7) – They also faced invasion from surrounding nations. The armies that came in destroyed their vineyards ad orchards. Their enemies were strong and powerful (the action or process of causing so much damage to something that it no longer exists or cannot be repaired.)

·       They faced desolation (1:8-13, 16-20) – A severe drought afflicted their land. There was no rain, and all the crops failed.  The herds and wild animals suffered and perished because there was no water or pasture for them.  Fires broke out and destroyed their forest (a state of complete emptiness or destruction).

·       They faced discipline (1:14-15) – None of these things were accidental or coincidental; they were all the judgment of God upon the land. Now, consider the sin and evil that runs rampant in our world. We are living in a generation that calls “evil good and good evil”. We are living in a society that protects the wicked and punishes the righteous. We are living in a world where fear has replaced faith; sin has replaced sanity; greed has replaced God; and hatred has replaced holiness.

 

The prophet Joel uses these events as an illustration of God’s judgment upon Israel. Their specific sin is not named in this book, but a careful reading of the book indicated that the people had slipped into a state of complacency and apathy about the things of God.

 

Do you agree with this thought – “Before anyone falls away from God outwardly - they first, inwardly fall away from God”?

 

ü  Are you as excited for God now as when you were first saved?

We get more excited about a shopping trip than we do about a revival meeting.  We would rather play than pray. We would rather have our ears tickled than our hearts searched by the Word. We would rather be entertained than challenged. We would rather stay like we are than become more like Him.

ü  Are you as concerned about spiritual things now as when you were first saved?

Preaching has been replaced by praise songs. Holiness has given way to happiness. Commitment has been replaced by complacency.

We wink at sin and wince at the holy demands of God. We have lost our fire, our power and our desire for the things of God.

ü  Do you love the Lord as much now as when you were first saved?

There is a song that states –

I just keep falling in love with Him
Over and over, and over, and over, again
I keep falling in love with Him,
Over and over, and over and over again
He gets sweeter and sweeter as the days go by,
Oh, what a love between my Lord and I
I keep falling in love with Him
Over and over, and over, and over, again
When I first fell in love with Jesus
I gave Him all my heart...
And I thought I could not love Him
More than I did right at the start
But now I look back over the mountains,
And the valleys where I've been...
And it makes me know I love Him
So much more than I did them...

Isn’t that the way that it should be, that every day, we find that the Lord is better to us than we could ever imagine? Are we excited to understand that God’s promises are real and trustworthy? As we find these things out, it ought to excite us all the more for the Lord. I believe God wants us excited as Christians.

2.  REMEMBER GOD DOESN’T WANT YOU TO STAY DESOLATE; HE REACHES OUT (2:12-17)

Even though they are experiencing the judgment of God, there is still hope! God reaches out to them one more time to address their condition and to call them back to Him.

      There’s a plea for repentance (12-14)To cause to move in a circular course; as, to turn a wheel; to turn a spindle; to turn the body. Genuine repentance is the only hope they have for survival.  God call on them to “turn” to Him with “all your heart”. Turn means in Bible dictionary, “To cause to move in a circular course; as, to turn a wheel; to turn a spindle; to turn the body”. A twist turns from sin to righteousness but prophet Joel calls on them to “rend” their “hearts” and not their “garments”. God isn’t looking for mere external displays of religion; He’s looking for heart change.  He is looking for people who are broken over their sinful and who are willing to change.

Matthew 3:8 says, “Bring forth therefore fruits meet for repentance:”

      There’s a plea for restoration (15-17) –

16 Gather the people, sanctify the congregation, assemble the elders, gather the children, and those that suck the breasts: let the bridegroom go forth of his chamber, and the bride out of her closet.

17 Let the priests, the ministers of the Lord, weep between the porch and the altar, and let them say, Spare thy people, O Lord, and give not thine heritage to reproach, that the heathen should rule over them: wherefore should they say among the people, Where is their God?

 

He calls for those occupied by the consuming matters of life to put Him first, v. 16c. He calls on the spiritual leaders of the people to come back to Him, v. 17. God wants His people to seek His face once more. He wants them to get hungry for Him one more time. God calls His people back to a place of closeness and holiness, v. 16a. This is the pressing need of our day. We live in a generation that puts everything ahead of God. We live in a generation that yields itself to everything but God. We live in a generation that has essentially abandoned God. We need to seek the Lord! We need to come to a place where nothing matters but His will for our lives.

 

3.  REMEMBER THE BLESSING OF TURNING TO GOD (2: 18-27)

After discussing the Problem and declaring His Plea, the Lord now delivers a Promise to His people. If they come back to Him, they will experience His blessings one more time.

      A promise of restoration (18-22) - God promises to deliver them from their enemies. He promises to feed them, bless them and satisfy them one more time.

      The promise of revival (23-25) - § God promises to send both the “former” and “latter” rains. § The “former” rains fell in October and November. They helped replenish the soil in preparation for the next planting season. § The “latter” rains fell in March and April. They came just in time to ensure that the harvest would be bountiful. § God also promised to replace everything that had been lost during the days of drought and devastation. § He is promising a revival of His blessings on the land!

      The promise of rejoicing (26) - God’s people will experience His blessings and they will be satisfied. They will praise Him. They will worship Him and exalt Him.

      The promise of realization (27) - When their restoration comes, they will know that God is in their midst and that He alone is the source of their strength, their power and their blessing. When God visits His people, there will be no doubt about Who is doing the work.

CONLUSION:

On this world even Christians are blinded by the worldly system. Let me tell you a story which I heard from a Baptist Pastor, and I search for it and found it.  This is the story goes…

If Danny Simpson had known more about guns, he might not have needed to rob the bank. But in 1990, in Ottawa, Canada, this 24-year-old went to jail, and his gun went to a museum. He was arrested for robbing a bank of $6,000 and then sent to jail for six years. He had used a .45 caliber Colt semi-automatic, which turned out to be an antique made by the Ross Rifle Company, Quebec City, in 1918. The pistol is worth up to $100,000—much more than Danny Simpson had stolen. If he had just known what he carried in his hand, he wouldn’t have robbed the bank. In other words, Danny already had what he needed.

 

Sometimes we are like Danny, we still strive so many things to get what we wanted but the truth is… we already have what we needed – we have the “LORD JESUS CHRIST” – who owns everything on this world. We just need to turn to HIM. 

FORGIVING THE UNFORGETTABLE (ACTS 15:36-40)

 

FORGIVING THE UNFORGETTABLE

BIBLE PASSAGE: ACTS 15:36-40


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Lesson Prepared by: Krisha of Solomon’s Wisdom FB page

Lesson taken from: https://alfredStreetBaptistChurch

 

MARCH 27, 2022

MEMORY VERSE

Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.

LUKE 17:3-4

 

INTRODUCTION:

When was the last time somebody hurt you? Maybe somebody treated you bad, disrespect you, spoke to you harshly, or anything that made you upset. Maybe you experienced just last week or possible today before you go to church. Possible today, your mind is rewinding your past experiences and still remember the things made you angry. Because it’s still fresh in your mind, you can still remember what you were wearing that time, or you knew where the direction of the wind blowing when that happened. The details are so detailed that it’s hard for you to forget. I don’t know our individual experiences and some of us might have carrying some wounds; some deep wounds that are not still healed until today.  In Luke 17:1 says, Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offences will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!

Sinabi ni Jesus sa kanyang mga alagad, “Tiyak na darating ang mga sanhi ng pagkakasala; ngunit kakila-kilabot ang sasapitin ng taong panggagalingan niyon (Tagalog). Time will come that you’ll be mistreated, and you know what even the saved saints of God, know what is like to be hurt. When you are hurt and wounded, this is the start the devil uses these to destroy your relationship to God. Satan holds you, hostage; he uses your hurt and wounds and these is his one of the tools. Holding on to past hurt is an unproductive thing we do in our lives. We’re still holding on to anger and resentment. Devil loves to put us in a place where we believe we can’t forgive. He’ll give us more reasons not to forgive; then forgiving is hard to do. We know that forgiving is easier said than done. It’s challenge for us when Peter asked Jesus how many times a person should be forgiven in the book of Matthew which the Lord replied seventy times seven. Now, Let’s look the 17th chapter of Luke verses 3 & 4,

Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.

The Bible gave us a warning in verse 3 and this time somebody hurt you seven times in just one day. Imagine this hurt in one day but the Bible said we should forgive if that somebody asked forgiveness.

Every day we’ve got reasons not to forgive and every day, the devil gives you more reasons, but we are called to forgive.

 

LESSON BACKGROUND:

We have read Acts 15:36-40. This is about Barnabas and Paul. If we were asked us to describe apostle Paul, we could say many things because he is familiar especial to those who have been in the church for so long. As a matter of fact, Paul, more than anyone else, who teaches us what it means to follow after and walk in faith in Jesus Christ. He wrote more than half of the books in the New Testament. He is powerful preacher that pastor, that counsellor, and that theologian. We can say that he might be the MVP in early Christianity for no one does much in spreading the Gospel like Paul. But it might surprise us to find out that Paul, like many of us, struggled with forgiving. That Paul had an issue with learning to let things go. We’ll see that evidently in the brother named “John Mark.” We probably better know him as Mark; he is the writer of the second book of the New Testament. He had relationship with Paul that quite contentious.

 

To understand the relationship of Paul and Mark, let’s go back to Acts chapter 7. Bear with me as I tell you the story of this relationship. In this book, Stephen is stoned to death; he’s the first martyr. When this happened, disciples panic, scattered to escape. They went to different cities like Cyprus and Cyrene but in Antioch where the Christians have fled from Jerusalem where the gospel begins to thrive. The fugitives from Jerusalem goes to Antioch and the Gospel begins to grow. Antioch is important in Christian history; this is the first city and first time the followers of Jesus Christ are called “Christians.” With this success the Christians in Jerusalem want to make sure that the gospel is preached rightly so they send Barnabas to Antioch to help but the ministry So then Barnabas went to Antioch, but the spreading of the gospel is so great that he needs help too. So then, he was partner to Paul to pastor the church in Antioch.  While they were in Antioch, a prophet was sent names “AGABBus” and said there will be famine in Jerusalem and the brethren in Antioch are concern with the brothers and sister in Antioch, so they make up a love offering. Barnabas and Paul go back to Jerusalem to give the Love offering.  When they come back to Antioch, Paul and Barnabas was accompanied by a young man named, “John Mark.” Some believe that John Mark is probably a nephew or relative of Barnabas. So now, Barnabas, Paul and John Mark.

 

Then in Acts chapter 13, the Christians are praying and fasting and when they were praying and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Separate me Barnabas and Saul for the work whereunto I have called them.” Paul and Barnabas ordained by the Holy Spirit to leave Antioch and to sail cities to preach the good news. The Holy Spirit says, “Go to Pergus, to Pamphylia, go to Iconium, go to Lystra go to Derbe and preach the good news of Jesus Christ. So, Paul and Barnabas with the ordination of the Holy Spirit grabbed John Mark and they sailed to begin preaching the good news. The first stop on their journey is the little town called Paphos. When they got there, they had unpleasant experience there with a sorcerer named Elymas who also called BarJesus. It had some tensions, but Paul worked it out. They had success in Paphos and then sailed in island called Pamphylia. When they got there, Mark tenders his letter of resignation. They’d been to one city and they’d one issue and then he quitted and say “No” to proceed. Mark quits. He went back to Jerusalem then Paul and Barnabas kept on their journey. They go to: Pisidia, Iconium, Lystra, Derbe and they kept preaching the good news of Jesus Christ. After their journey in Acts 15, they went to Jerusalem to have a debate over the necessity of circumcision with the apostles in Jerusalem. After Paul won that debate, the Holy Spirit says to him, “Go back to the cities you’ve just came from and see how the gospel is.” Then Paul told Barnabas that they needed to back to the cities they’d preached but Barnabas wanted to bring Mark with them. In Acts 15:37 & 38 say, “And Barnabas determined to take with them John, whose surname was Mark. But Paul thought not good to take him with them, who departed from them from Pamphylia, and went not with them to the work.” Let’s paraphrase, “Oh no, this can’t be. Don’t you forget he left us in our previous trip?” Paul in Acts 15 hasn’t forgotten that Mark left them in chapter 13. Paul didn’t like to bring Mark and in Acts 15:39 says, “And the contention was so sharp between them, that they departed asunder one from the other: and so Barnabas took Mark, and sailed unto Cyprus;”

They argued about Mark so deeply that they split ways. In Acts 15 you see a Paul hasn’t forgotten and forgiven.

LESSON OUTLINE:

1.  SOME RELATIONSHIP CANNOT BE RESTORED AND YOU CANNOT RUSH RESTORATION

 

Hurt can be damaging that can’t be restored. Sometimes things don’t go back to the way they were. You can forgive but still the relationship is not restored the way it was. Forgiveness can be granted but restoration (panunumbalik) is not automatically there. Even the disciples are not exempted with this; Mark is the writer of 2nd book of the New Testament and Paul wrote half of the New Testament. Even leaders and pastors are prone to this kind of contention. That’s why I’m encouraging you to look unto Jesus not to the people around you because they are not perfect like you do. If you look to them, you will fall. I remember one of my personal experiences in living with pastors, leaders, pastors’ sons and daughters, workers and also “fake workers.” I lived with male workers here in the church and one of them is I think had the weakness that he can’t control. He used to peep every time I took a bath. I caught him and made me angry. I mentioned this to our pastors that time, but I don’t know what discipline they did. If you were in situation like that, you will be careful next time, am I right? You won’t get too close to that person anymore, it takes time. For clarification, “some relationships not all relationships.” Let’s go back to the person I was talking. This person hadn’t asked forgiveness so what I did I talked to him and told him that what he did hurt me and got disappointed to him but at the end, I gave him my forgiveness.  After that, we didn’t eat and sit together, everything changed. I realized he still a “man” and prone to temptation, so I gave a space.

 

I searched if Paul and Barnabas had come together after this contention but nothing found but there’s one verse in Colossians but that is not clear about this matter. So, we can say that they never work together again like what they were. Then Paul refused to partner with Mark again.

 

If you remember in Acts chapter 13 that Paul and Barnabas are ordained by God, but they took John Mark. God hasn’t ordained someone to be part in your life or in the ministry, but you allowed it. Sometimes God allows an offence to break the relationship he never ordained for you in the first place. God ordained Paul and Barnabas to be together, but John Mark came by their own invitation. John Mark was never ordained by God to be part of the partnership of Paul and Barnabas and sometimes the offence comes for God to exit out of your life people He never ordained to be part of His plan. Barnabas didn’t see this. You can’t force in partnership with God hasn’t created in providence (protective care of God).

 

We mentioned earlier that it’s hard to find in the Bible that Paul and Barnabas worked together again after the contention but there is one in Colossians Paul mentioned Barnabas. So we see that Paul and Barnabas didn’t work together as they were. How about Paul and Mark? In 2 Timothy 4:10-11, where Paul dying moment when he wrote this letter.

10 For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto Thessalonica; Crescens to Galatia, Titus unto Dalmatia. 11 Only Luke is with me. Take Mark, and bring him with thee: for he is profitable to me for the ministry.

Paul was forsaken by Demas and Crescens went to Galatia and Titus in Dalmatia and see only Luke with him, a disciple who wrote the 3rd book of New Testament. When he said to Timothy to visit him and told him to bring Mark with him too for he is profitable in the ministry. This time, he wants to deal with Mark again; he wants to restore the relationship.

2.  UNFORGIVING HEART WILL CAUSE YOU TO LOSE OTHER PRODUCTIVE RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE (ACTS 15:39)

 

If you look in the Bible and, in any relationship, there was no more productive than that with Paul and Barnabas. Paul and Barnabas together get the job done. When Paul was converted from Saul he went to Jerusalem and tried to become an apostle, who was there to recommend him to be accepted? Barnabas did that. When the church in Antioch was growing and Barnabas needs help, guess who he got – Paul. When the gospel spread in the cities who preached for revival work? – Paul and Barnabas. When Paul was stoned in Derbe and left for dead guess who laid hands on him – it’s Barnabas. Their relationship ws productive and there’s no relationship in the Bible as productive as Paul and Barnabas. BUT Paul’s unwillingness to forgive Mark caused him to lose his partnership with Barnabas.

 

Barnabas wants John Mark, but Paul didn’t. Paul made a critical mistake to force Barnabas to choose between him and Mark but sad to say, Barnabas chose Mark. Possible, Paul assumed he would be chosen but it’s painful that was not he expected. Only to find out that Barnabas had a deep attachment to John Mark. Sometimes we want somebody especially our friends or partners in the ministry to have the same feelings as we have. If we have a bad feeling with another person, we want our friends to feel the same way or understands our feelings. If you’ve hurt and offended and you won’t forgive, you naturally have an issue with anybody else who favors the person who hurt you and your unforgiving heart can sit still with people who like the one you won’t forgive. For example, I got you offended, and you won’t forgive me. Let’s see how the enemy works on this to make the relationship unproductive. You attended a choir practice and as you enter you heard how much they like me maybe because of something I did to them or in the ministry. Then in your unforgiving heart can’t stand to hear somebody talking about nice things about me. Then now you’ve got to tell everybody the real truth about me because you need everybody else to not like me the same way you don’t like me. The result, the people who like doesn’t want to be bother with you. An unforgiving heart makes you unattractive person. People don’t want to hear your bitterness. People don’t want to be with someone who always angry and telling stuff of others. Bitterness makes you ugly.

 

3.  AN UNFORGIVNG HEART IS ALSO AN UNGRATEFUL HEART

 

When you don’t forgive you literally are saying, you’re not grateful. When Mark left Paul and Barnabas in Acts 13, Paul was hurt, felt disrespected and he was angry. By the time we get to chapter 15 of Acts, he was still holding on to the anger what John Mark did. The problem, he seemed to forget everything God had done since Mark hurt him.

In chapter 13-15 we can see the cities the journey they went through. After Mark hurt him, they sailed from Pamphylia to Pisidia, then from Pisidia to Iconium, from Iconium to Lystra, from Lystra to Derbe, from Derbe to back to Antioch, from Antioch to Jerusalem and from Jerusalem to Antioch. God gave him travel to twelve different cities after Mark hurt him. After Mark hurt him, look at the success of the gospel. After Mark hurt him, they preached the good news to the whole city in Pisidia. After Mark hurt him, the Holy Ghost filled thousands of disciples in Iconium.  After Mark hurt him, he preached in Lystra and raised the crippled brother. Look how God protected Paul after Mark hurt him, After Mark hurt him, he was stoned in Derbe and God allowed him to survive. Also, he won in the debate in Jerusalem. All of these things happened after Mark hurt him. 

Let’s ask, what did Paul lose? … Even somebody hurt you, God still bless you! Even Mark disrespected Paul, God gave him more what he deserves. Don’t let your bitterness on what they did to you causes you to be ungrateful for what God has done for you.

 

CONCLUSION:

I know some situations in our life where somebody deeply hurt us. It’s not in the skin surface. it’s in the core; it’s deep. Let’s remember that the enemy gives us more reasons not to forgive. The question is, in spite of people did to you, has the Lord been good to you? In spite of what they said, did the Lord bless you anyhow? In spite of how much they hurt you, did God make a way anyhow? If you know how good God has been don’t come in bitter; come in grateful because God has blessed you, in spite of it. God was still good. Let’s learn to forgive what you can’t forget.

 



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